I learnt to broaden my horizons when I got dumped from my previous relationship
I never went to the theatre with my ex. That was daft of me. When ever my, now wife, wants to go to the theatre I'm with her
Art galleries, really not my thing. But I enjoy that she enjoys them
As a result, she cones to things I like that normally wouldn't interest her
It's the fact we do them together that gives the other enjoyment
Wrong person... I was with girls 8 years. Trying my best, Im wery calm, have good job, car, can cook allmost enything and only thing i wanted from her was help! Help with home, helo with garden... She rather broke up with me. So i moved from house and now she must do it all her selfe :-)
No problem to find great girl. Living best life, just hold up
Stay strong my man, you know that a part of your life has been detached from you, this would hurt for a while, but the only way to get away from it is to find a hobby which might keep you busy.
Dude, I was in a relationship like that not long ago, trust me, she's not doing it with others because she enjoy it. that's a narcissist personality disorder behavior, wether she has that disorder , the behavior is there. And trust me, they do it as revenge.
She knows what you wanted and she neglected to you, and she knows that you will feel hurt about it, she's doing it on purpose.
Tell me more about her and your relationship, if it's like my ex then she may have NPD, and they are barely humans.
My ex was diagnosed by a doctor as NPD and BPD (Borderline personality disorder), hearing about how they behave will help you mate.
Last week i finally got over my break up (also about 2months ago) and it was the day that I said “Fuck It I am better then this and it’s her loss not mine” and started enjoying my life again
Look at it this way:
You know what she's really like as a person. Now she's going to overcompensate and make the next guy or guys lives a living hell. One of those poor bastards is going to knock her up and get married and now he's in for life
The year or two you spent with her is all it cost you to get rid of her. You got off cheap
It will get better my man. In a long run in will toughen you up, you'll be more resilient and you'll better understand women in general. It's a trial and your goal is not to let it consume and destroy you. Be mad, cry, but then quickly throw it over your shoulder and move on. The worst thing you can do is to get stuck in it for a long time.
Focus on yourself, expand your horizons. Gain inner knowledge to make choices that truly make you happy, learn that you are what matters first then anything and everyone else. All the aspects of your reality can be shaped with motivated love, comprehension and respect. You will move on to find your true north.
from a guy who has had his fair shares of unreciprocated love: Bro, don't ever go back or even try to fix things. Just leave. Remember don't ever try to fix things. People don't change.
Look man. Sometimes people aren't a good fit, they bring out the worst in each other or are together because they compliment each other's securities.
The time now is for you to better yourself while trying to take a truly honest account of who you are. I can assure you you're not perfect, none of us are, accepting that and improving it makes you better.
It's hard not to dwell, it's hard not to what if but now is a pretty great time to have become single. Trust me, as someone who's long term relationship ended in Jan 2020, I wish that upon no one. But now, almost two years later I have my working visa for a country on the other side of the world in my 30s and am going to find that solo adventure.
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