It's actually more common than you think. Being raised and surrounded by toxic people makes you think that's the norm. You end up drawn to abusive people because of the familiarity of the situation.
I actually don't understand why people don't apologize when they are wrong. I misunderstood something two days ago. I thought the person I like didn't say hi to me and ignored me. I thought I said something and asked him about it and I apologized in case I did say something wrong. He said I didn't but he didn't want to tell my why he ignored me. We were arguing for two days untill he explained the whole situation to me and apparently, I misunderstood something. I apologized again because of the whole drama I caused.
I grew up with the people that never talked out their problems. They were mind readers I guess, and they never aplogized. Because of that I always want to talk and I apologize when I'm wrong
saying "most people are toxic" may be too much but most people lose themselves in their lifes, that's at least an observation i had to make while growing older. and just from the nature of it, it occurs that people hence become self centered, and want things to run smooth or at least in "their way".
in short: people apparently stop actually thinking with age and life, it happened to me and it felt shit, like dying mentally, horrible...but how i behaved in those times is relfected in how people behave all over the place and it's sad, because this state of mind of every-day monotony is addicting and imprisoning, takes away real non impulsive joy and action.
That’s sad to hear. But you gotta go even a step further than that. Don’t even anticipate an apology from anyone. Just decide, how you wanna feel about a wrong action towards you, if they apologize or not. That way you can’t get disappointed in this matter!
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