Give her a chance to prove that she's better than her family by doing what's right and talk to them to stop doing this. If she keeps finding excuse for them and defends their attitude, man up and ditch her ass. If she's feeling bad and talks to them and even is willing to cut ties with them for your relationship's well being, then she's a keeper. But from my experience, females when confronted to chose between you and their family, they usually chose the later. Hope you're the lucky one and found yourself a little "jewel".
You’ve been together since june, and he’s already taking money from you? Hell nah. Have they mentioned paying you back? I for one think it’s weird that your girl isn’t saying anything. MARRIAGE? You guys only just met. Take a breather, really get to know one another.
How are you meant to provide for your partner and your new family if you have to provide for her father as well? He will drain you of everything and you will never be able to build a good life. Watch out
Crazy ideas but how about you talk with your gf about this behaviour. Or better yet tell his dad to pay for his own stuff.
If you want others to respect you then you need to respect yourself first.
different cultures, difficult to judge. in some places it's each to their own, in others you're expected to be "filial" and give some of your money away. and pay dowry $$$ if you marry some family girl. it's not good to appear too stingy. even so I would not allow family to take away my savings nilly willy. also in the old days there were returns for such investments. the family would help you farming or help you build your house and such things
No way man... tell them to fuck off, nicely or otherwise.. you and your future wife should be planning it and paying together.. the parents should be helping out where they can. Used to be the brides family got a dowry from the groom but that shit aint been happening for years..
If it’s part of your culture and you’re expected to go along with it, then it depends on whether you’re ok with that. If it were me, I’d be out of there super fast. You’re only with her six months and there’s already problems that have nothing to do with love and respect
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