Your marriage is in trouble. I know, cos I did this when my marriage was going down the pan. It's not right, it's not clever, but I had my suspicions she was cheating and I decided to go get me some too. I was right. In the end, we argued about who cheated first, as if that mattered. There were problems that were way beyond that. If you can, try and find a good couples therapist. Try and find the problems and fix them. My kids were destroyed by the divorce, and 10 years later, still have issues. Good luck. I hope it works out
Good chance he wanted to see if he still had it. Doesn't mean he was cheating necessarily, either by his choice or others.
Still shitty regardless but talk with him about it
Is there no chance that someone else used the computer or that it's not for him but someone else send him a link to a site to look at some chick a friend of his is interested in? Make sure you don't piss it all away on mere suspicion. Gather more information to be sure.
Most spouses make the mistake of not caring for each other after marriage. Like, I've already made love. Now they will love me just like that.
All your life you have to take care of your spouse, as if he had not yet decided to take you as his wife.
First it might just be boredom curiosity. He may still be totally in love with you, just wondering what the big deal is with the online dating world if it came out after you got married
He may feel unappreciated or undervalued, as do you but life gets in the way of old romance so ask yourself are you both just too busy with life and kids and having no time alone with each other any more?
Either way, confront him: he might just be missing you as he is last in the pecking order in the house as both of you put the kids first, if you’re good parents, and don’t leave time for each other
Don’t lose hope: the line may still be there but a touch of apathy or depression could be masking it
Confront him. But first, If you suspect that he's already getting some somewhere else then maybe you should evaluate if you want to save the relationship or rather cut bait & find yourself something new.
If you want to save the relationship then there's other steps/stuff that's possible...
The chances of you getting custody/alimony/child support are like 76+% even if you are the breadwinner. That's what a female centric patriarchal system gives you.
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