Im 40 and single, no kids, take pleasure in what.you do, with or without a partner, dont chase women for the sake of not being alone, learn to enjoy being alone, when you learn to live and have fun all by yourself you become a person people wants to be around, try to radiate hapiness and good mood, nobody wants to be friends with or date someone that is always complaining and sad.
Keep alternating posts on between "here's a example of why men are right and woman are wrong", "look how hot those tits and boobs are" and "I'm depressed" until the end of time folks, that will surely make you grow as a person and win at life.
As a woman I agree, I have been more attracted to men who are about their own thing, desperation is indeed not a good look. And it goes the same the other way, women need to be about their own thing as well.
"Take care of yourself" means the following btw:
- Proper Hygene... smell can make a big first impression, especially when negative
- Proper Haircuts (doesn't mean nothing too out of the ordinary, just don't look like a bear between the legs and wash your hair occasionally....)... you might also wanna get an air dryer if you have longer hair, makes your hair look a bit nicer
- I would actually go as far as you might wanna do a bit of martial arts or another sport that is done with others (Badminton/Tennis, Football...whatever tickles your fancy), it will give you confidence and you can make some buddies/can do some small talk with other people, for some you don't even need a club or anything, just join a group via meetup or similar...gym is fine, but you usually don't get to talk with people
- Join some social events to learn to talk with people in person.... I got some matches with women I was on the same events with (e.g. Salsa and Board Game Events).. but just talk casually...
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