But it is controlling, if you’re in a loving relationship the foremost thing there needs to be is trust. If you’re going to get stressed your partner is going out, then you don’t have a trust. If it’s for righteous reasons, absolutely don’t be with him/her.
Lmao that's some bullshit. That relationship he describes has no trust or respect. Trying to get his last name? Lmao that is no prize. If he isn't the prize his name isn't either. Just be honest, respectful, and talk to your partner but shit like this ... bullshit.
Everyone disagreeing but let's switch the roles. Guy goes out clubbing every week, comes back home drunk. You never ask because you don't want to be called "controlling" but then one day you complain and he says "I'm a king, I do what I want. Yeah, I got flaws you just got to accept it. I'm a prize, you want this dick you better get with the plan.*snap snap*. Okay, I don't clean around the house and I might be moody, but this is a package deal. If you don't accept me at my worst, you don't deserve my best."
Sounds almost alien right? What guy ever sounds THAT entitled? But somehow, women do it and it's perfectly acceptable... No, encouraged — empowering even!
You know the types of posts when there is some fucking mind reading expected from the guy and it's always like "lads, find a woman who doesn't play shit like that"? Well, this is that but reverse. Lasses, find a man who doesn't play shit like that. You're not a psyker, you can't read minds.
He is not correct. It isn’t about superiority from either side. It’s about care, comprise and most of all trust. It’s about selflessness and doing things for each other equally because you care. It’s a life long dance. I’ve been married for 19 yrs and we’ve been together for 23 yrs total. I’m 43 and my wife is 40. We always know that no matter what happens, we are in this together.
How little cofindence does this guy have to always have to scared that his gf is hitting it with someone else. Also his taste in women is questionable. And why can’t he convey his feelings in a modern normal way through words ?
People that whine this is controlling, no it is not. You have a choice to leave, nobody is forcing you to stay. If you go on a girls' night out with your single friends, you are making yourself a target for advances in an environment where people are generally intoxicated.
Nobody is stopping you from spending time with friends, just don't go to places where people generally go to look for sex or relationship. Going for a coffee with your friends is bit different than dressing up provocatively and going out to a club.
If you don't like that a guy doesn't want you to do that, you can go and be with someone else. It's that simple, get a grip.
how about not lying and instead, yes, giving her the freedom to be herself and not only a partner but also letting her see your cards, show your feelings, that you'd still be happy if she joined you in your evening?
so she can choose how to tackle your feelings, maybe give you a hug, comfort you, choose otherwise or call you while being out to send love and greetings?
i can't stand the level of toxicity relationships seem to have out there but i guess i understand more and more why i was given so many strange compliments from ex girlfriends about absolutely normal things
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