Same happened here, but we never got to the wedding part...
After like 2 years I still can't believe it, that she wanted me to treat her more harshly.
Like... what the hell is wrong with some people? You show them affection and love and trust and they be like "Fuck U, treat me like shit!"
Yea had a case like that. Everything was fine until i started putting effort into dates and planned stuff. She was put off by how nice i was and dumped me on like the 5th or 6th date. (At least thats what she said)
Turns out her past bfs were abusive or only called her for sex. Basically she confused that kind of treatment for love and expected it from everyone. Bage. This is why men want virgins
Best example for women have it easier in life.
A man knows the world is harsh and annoying, so we want a partner to give us peace.
But women have it so easy that they need more drama.
I speak fluent woman, so allow me to translate.
'Boy, you didn't get the memo. You married to get your dick sucked, she did it to interact with another human. You're not a human, you're a doormat, incapable of an original thought. You express yourself less than the cucumber she's going to fuck herself with when she's done with you. You're the exact type that bottles up to suddenly slit her throat one day. So she called quits, because she's lonely, and she threw you a compliment on way out because she really is scared for her life and knows you're a sociopath'
Women love drama. Don't let women fool you. They love men that send them on an emotional roller-coaster, put them in their place, and make them think they are one bad BJ away from being replaced. They watch serial killer shows to relax. What a woman says and what she wants are two totally different things.
People whining about this fail to understand a lot of things.
#1 Most women don't want a loser as their partner, who worships them and expects nothing or very little in return. There's a difference being simply affectionate and being an overly mushy loser who is just happy to have a partner. Hell you become more attractive, as soon as they figure out that there are other women out there who'd take you in a heartbeat if she doesn't treat you right.
#2 A man enforcing his boundaries and rules is attractive, cause then it is clear that he knows what he wants. The women in question have a choice whether they accept them or they keep looking for something else. If a man starts accommodating and giving up on his own rules and values for a woman, that's when he starts losing the respect. That also makes him look so desperate to get this particular woman, that he is willing to give up his own rules to get her, which is kind of pathetic.
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