She does everything for me, she stopped going to raves and parties, constantly keeps messaging me that she misses me, she does my hobbies with me, but I see she doesn't enjoy it.
It feels like I'm center of her attention, I honestly hate it. She even cut off contact with some of her friends, just because I said I don't like their company. It's weird. I don't want her to revolve her whole life around me
I've never been in similar situation
Tell it to her as it is.
I mean I wouldn't want her to continue going to raves and if she has toxic friends that would just encourage her to get back to her former habits, I wouldn't want her to hang with those people either.
But if she has "normal" friends, encourage her to spend time with them too, might be easier too get them to hang at your place so she doesn't feel like you're trying to ditch her, unless that's what you're trying to do, if that's the case just tell her.
Relationships are about being open an honest with each other.
If you're going to break up with her, then be honest about it and do it.
Leave. Some people will not introspect until real consequences hit them. Do it yesterday. Even if it does not look like it for the outside, you do it for her, too.
Then suffer yourself. This time choice is your - you or her.
If she has destructive tendencies, without pointing out, you are encouraging her behaviour.
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