I like when a toxic relative dies and then suddenly it becomes a saint, and bad is everyone who says otherwise.
11/10/22
I cant explain my mother that her sister is using her. Mom gets angry because of her sister, cursing her and says to me never again going to help her. And next week already give all money to sister "because she is family"
11/10/22
My brothers and one of my sisters treated my like shit when I was younger. Now that we are older they want to me to forget that shit lol no way fuck them
11/10/22
You should forgive because of yourself, not because of them. The poison will not kill you, if you don't swallow it.
11/10/22
Drop'em, Drop'em all. Who gives a fuck if they are family or whatever? They are bad for you? Step away!
11/10/22
As soon as you realise that "family members" are not more than a term, you are good. You didn't pick them. So you don't have to stick with them.
11/10/22
My Brother used to torture me and send me death threats so i havent talked to him in over 15 years but my mother still insists that we make up because we are family. She even tried to use my boyfriend against by talking to him without me but he tells me everything. She knows what happend. And it hurts so much that she does not care about it.
11/10/22
Most people who complain about toxic people are toxic!
11/10/22
family is great for helping and protecting each other. Unlike friends you cant just "quit" family since you are always related no matter what. And if you start cutting out family they'll probably do the same with you and you end up all alone. of course if you get abused or beaten (...) you should leave them. but just because your aunt asks when are you getting married or your grandpa votes reputlicans doesnt mean they are toxic. what I'm trying to say is: cutting out family members should be the last resort for extreme situations.
11/10/22
They surely should be granted a chance to prove themselves to be better than that but that‘s about it.
11/10/22
One of my 2 grandmas is like the most toxicating selfish person i have ever known. All my life, she tried to generate made up arguments between family members, never helped anyone in anything and all she cared about is how to generate more attention around herself. She didnt show up on my graduation, she didnt show up on my wedding. For these, i can not forgive her, and i will be happily dancing around her grave when the time comes.
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11/10/22
True... but you cannot leave them on the sidewalk, so how?! :/
11/10/22
Yes, but how do you know you are not the toxic one?
11/10/22
They have to do something to be forgiven
11/10/22
Amen!
11/10/22
No, but its so sad to see grandma sad at Christmas because the family doesn't eat together anymore because of a stupid fight your cousin had with his mom which got way out of hand...
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